Choice memories of my dad go back to my earliest recollections. He has always been my best friend and advocate. He is my hero.
A number of years ago, I went to a general priesthood meeting with Dad. We have been doing this together throughout my life when I have had the good fortune of living in the same general area as him. What was unique about this particular priesthood meeting didn't actually happen during the meeting however but occurred instead afterward as we walked from the chapel to our car. These are his words as I remember them:
"Mathew, I have always wanted to teach that it is our ancestors and loved ones on the other side of the veil who are our guardian angels, but I didn't openly promote it because I never heard the brethren comment on that as such—until tonight.
"Elder Bednar's talk this evening was beautiful. Now I feel that I have justification to teach that very principle."
Today is my dad's birthday. Of course, I miss him greatly, but he is not by any means out of my life. In fact, he is now a part of it perhaps more than he has ever before because his lack of proximity and ill health are no longer barriers to his involvement. For example:
- He is part of my newly found job and guidance
- He helps me endure to the end when the going gets rough
- His stellar example taught me the importance of following Christ
- He is in the successes of my children
- He helps me make good choices and rear a strong family to choose the right
- Dad always spent time listening to us when we were children and adults
- I never saw him discouraged. My friends would ask "Does your dad always smile?" Yeah. Pretty much always. I asked him once why that was so. He said "When I think of all my blessings, I can't help but smile in appreciation."
My daughter just got back from a trip to Thailand. The whole experience was a joy, but I honestly couldn't wait to see her again. I anticipated her return and shed tears of joy as we embraced. I expect it's going to be a lot like that when we are reunited with Dad.
I have another Father in Heaven as well, and because of him, we are an eternal family.
Happy Birthday Dad. I love you.