I wouldn’t really call myself a handyman. Sure, I change the
furnace filter and fix the occasional plumbing problems around the house, but
my know-how and expertise in the area of home repairs is somewhat limited. Yet,
on occasion there comes along a job that has to be done. Such was the case
recently.
The faucet in our upstairs bathroom was dripping. My wife
brought this to my attention, and I went to work. Somewhat surprisingly, I
found the necessary items and fixed it in no time, or so I thought. It turns
out, however, that the leak continued. It was now down in the cupboard with
more serious side effects. I didn’t know what to do, so I sought the help from
a local plumbing supply store. They knew the questions to ask and were experienced
with my situation. So the advice they gave was direct and simple, including one
cartridge and a couple springs with caps. In just a few minutes miraculously
the problem was solved, and the stress and anxiety I was feeling because I was
unable to complete this job dissipated. So I learned again how much help a
little knowledge from someone who really knows can be.
Farm life was like that. We were new at ranching and caring
for farm animals. We encountered problems regularly that were beyond our
ability to resolve, but we learned the people we could depend on for good
answers—mentors if you will—and that made all the difference.
And so it is in life. We encounter situations for which we
are unprepared and possibly overwhelmed. Do you ever feel that way? We need to
defer to someone who knows the answers and will give us the guidance and
direction that we need.
I felt a lot like that as a new father. It was not uncommon to face things I never imagined and for which I was totally unprepared. And I know those feelings are not necessarily unique to me.
How does one deal with a wayward child, or an untimely death
in the family, or a tragic circumstance or overwhelming obstacle? Good
questions and very important answers indeed, because navigating the hardships
of life can be challenging. Though we don’t know all the answers, we all know
Someone who does.
And I am not just trying to make it through life by the
skin-of-my-teeth. My goal for both me and my loved ones is Exaltation. I want
the very best for my family in this life and the next. So I have for my mentor
the Savior Jesus Christ. With his help and the gospel he restored, overwhelming
obstacles and hazardous hardships are manageable. Ecstasy and happiness are
assured. My goal is attainable and not only possible but certain if I am
faithful. All things become new as we are reconciled unto God.
That is the miracle of the Atonement of Jesus Christ.
My wife came to me the other day and asked me a question as
part of her preparation for a lesson she taught. She asked “Can you give me an
example of how you implement the atonement in your everyday life?”
Perhaps the obvious answer is that I repent every day,
because I am fallible and weak. But she was looking for a different answer. She
wanted to know how the atonement influences my life daily. So to answer that
question, I referred to a metaphor. How do you hold on to the rod of iron every
day? Holding fast to the iron rod, as taught by Nephi, means that we learn,
commit to live and obey the commandments. When we apply the Atonement of Jesus
Christ in our lives, it affects every decision we make and everything we do.
And we are able to think about and ponder and utilize and apply the power of
the atonement in every choice and with every obstacle that we face.
My father explained it this way:
We are not achieving our most important goal until we have
established in the hearts of our children and the saints, an even greater love
and appreciation for Jesus Christ.
“Friends may betray us, spouses may leave us, health may
fail, and our possessions burn up. But, Christ, His promises, understanding,
and love will never fail us. With some trials and most tragedies, only this can
get us through.
“When we can take a thankless, demanding calling; give up
something we wanted greatly so that we can pay our tithing; or help out someone
who has badly hurt us and say, ‘I wouldn’t do this for anyone else, but I will
do it for Christ!’ then the power for good he can have in our lives is becoming
a reality. He must be the foundation of our lives.”
Many have asked the question about how to apply the
atonement in our lives every day. With the renewed emphasis on the Atonement of
Jesus Christ in recent years, I think we can all appreciate the need to apply
this great blessing in our lives daily. As part of my study for this article, I
deferred to someone much wiser than myself to whom I could receive direction
and clarification. In this particular case, it was Neal A Maxwell to whom I gave
way. His witness of greater spiritual refinement through the Atonement of Jesus
Christ is orchestrated into a beautiful symphony of testimony—not with notes but with words; not with stanzas
but with commitment; and finally, not with a choir of voices but with a pledge
and a promise. This excerpt is striking.
The hope we have in Jesus Christ gives us strength and
sustenance in the face of the challenges of our day. Elder J. Devn Cornish has
testified “If you will really try and will not rationalize or rebel—repenting often
and pleading for grace—you positively are going to be ‘good enough.’”
These words from October conference last year are still
encouraging and comforting me today. His whole talk is edifying and inspiring.
I provide a further excerpt below:
Let me be direct and clear. The answers to the questions “Am
I good enough?” and “Will I make it?” are “Yes! You are going to be good
enough” and “Yes, you are going to make it as long as you keep repenting and do
not rationalize or rebel.” The God of heaven is not a heartless referee looking
for any excuse to throw us out of the game. He is our perfectly loving Father,
who yearns more than anything else to have all of His children come back home
and live with Him as families forever. He truly gave His Only Begotten Son that
we might not perish but have everlasting life! Please believe, and please take
hope and comfort from this eternal truth. Our Heavenly Father intends for us to
make it! That is His work and His glory.
This message of hope is not beyond our ability to achieve,
no matter what our present circumstances may be. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland said:
“However many chances you think you have missed, however
many mistakes you feel you have made … , I testify that you have not traveled
beyond the reach of divine love. It is not possible for you to sink lower than
the infinite light of Christ’s Atonement shines.”
President Uchtdorf speaks of the application of the
Atonement of Jesus Christ through the lessons
we can learn from Alma and Amulek.
There is no situation that we encounter for which our Mentor
is unprepared. He understands when we feel overwhelmed. Because of him, your
success and happiness is assured, if you accept his gift and follow him.
Yes. The miracle of the Atonement of Jesus Christ blesses us
every single day of our lives.
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